Paradise

On Saturday, March 15, 2025, my husband Harold and I visited Honolulu, Oahu, which was actually our 4th time here. We visited Honolulu 3 times in the 1990’s-2000’s, back when I worked for Delta Air Lines. I learned back then that Waikiki is really just a big city in the middle of “paradise” and full of people in need.

On this visit I was once again struck with the sight of so many hurting people set against the backdrop of the beauty of Waikiki Beach. My mind flashed back to the last time we were here years ago, when I noticed what looked to be a prostitute pushing a toddler in a stroller, and an abundance of people walking around dazed and confused, likely on drugs and/or alcohol.

This visit wasn’t much different.

While waiting for our bus to Waikiki Beach a man came up to Harold and me (and another couple) begging us to let him take the 4 of us to Waikiki for only $10. He looked rough and I immediately sensed he was on drugs. When we each politely declined he suddenly began violently cursing at us. He walked away angry and cursing. It was pretty intense.

When we got to Waikiki Beach, there was a woman out in the middle of the street who was screaming obscenities at a man who was walking away from her as fast as he could. He initially ignored her for the most part but then he stopped, turned around and started screaming obscenities back at her, all within earshot of walkers-by including young children. It was quite a scene.

When we walked over to the public restroom, which was connected to the Waikiki Beach Police Department, there was what looked to be an elderly homeless man lying on the ground shaking. He was within 25 feet of the police department. Then we saw a young woman sitting outside of the police station smoking marijuana. She was very pretty, looked healthy and young, and she did not appear to be homeless.

I found the condition of the ladies restroom so repugnant I nearly got sick just being there a minute or two. It was the filthiest restroom I have ever been in my entire life. I walked over to talk to someone at the police station but the door was locked. There was an intercom but the man who answered the intercom was of no help.

We managed to get in a short visit at the beach and a few photos, but didn’t stay long. We left, thinking about what the ravages of sin has done to so many people, in the middle of the beauty, in the middle of “paradise,” in the middle of Waikiki Beach.

To be honest, I was afraid to accept that man’s offer to drive us to Waikiki Beach. I feared if we got in his car he would pull a gun on us, or that his car interior might have traces of fentanyl in it.

I was afraid to look into that woman’s eyes who was screaming obscenities on the street for fear of her walking up to me and attacking me.

I was afraid to try to help the elderly man lying on the ground by the police station for fear he might be sick with something contagious.

I was afraid to say anything to the young woman smoking marijuana just outside of the police department for fear of what she might say or do to me.

But,

I’m not afraid to write about it, and to pray for God to help these people with their addictions and with their anger; and to bless them with the gift of repentance and faith in Him, before it’s too late.

For the wages of sin is death, but, the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 6:23

True paradise is not found at Waikiki Beach, or any beach for that matter. It is found only at the end of our life on earth to those who have a saving relationship with Jesus Christ.

To the thief who trusted in Jesus at the cross,

Jesus answered him, “Truly I tell you, today you will be with me in paradise.” Luke 23:43

His Name

While eating lunch on one of our recent cruises I overheard a buffet worker talking with a guest as she was gathering up the dirty dishes from a nearby table. Her English was pretty good (most of the workers are foreigners) but what caught my attention was that she was spewing out the Lord’s name carelessly (and excessively) as she was talking about something they had in common. I don’t think I’m exaggerating when I say that she must have said His name around 10 or 15 times in the course of 1 or 2 minutes. She was smiling and being very friendly but obviously had no idea she was taking the Lord’s name in vain, and for no good purpose; it was insanely repetitive and disrespectful. Not just to me or any nearby Christians, but to God.

I thought to myself that if she comes near our table that maybe I could strike up a conversation with her and then mention it politely to her that she was taking the Lord’s name in vain, and then ask her if she knew this was against one of the 10 Commandments. So as I was eating, I grabbed my iPhone and looked up the chapter and verse I wanted to share with her, and to use it as a reference:

You shall not take the name of the LORD your God in vain, for the LORD will not hold him guiltless who takes his name in vain. Exodus 20:7

After I finished copying the verse onto my notepad, I looked up but I didn’t see her anywhere. So then, I contemplated that when I saw her again that maybe I would just get up and go over to her to say something to her.

I never saw her again.

I left a little duck and a Living Waters 10 Commandments Coin on the table, hoping that she would be the one to clean our table, but I’ll never know for sure. In retrospect I wish I would have just gotten up and walked over to talk to her while she was still there, but I didn’t. I could have handed her the 10 Commandments Coin in person and pointed out the third Commandment to her, but I didn’t. Why didn’t I think of that in the first place? Probably because it’s much easier to leave some type of an evangelical message for random people to pick up than it is to actually walk up and speak to people in person. Ya think?

So, throughout the rest of that cruise and also the next one, I became a little extra sensitive in overhearing random people in different settings taking the name of the Lord in vain. Random people, casually throwing the name of our Lord around in common catch phrases, like “Oh my …” and “Oh …,” etc., although it wasn’t in repetitive excess like that buffet worker.

And to be clear, this wasn’t the first time I’ve been sensitive about people taking the Lord’s name in vain. I’ve been sensitive to this ever since becoming a follower of Christ and learning that it’s a serious offense that God doesn’t take lightly.

I used to say His name in vain without a blink of an eye,

But,

He changed me from inside out when He saved me by His amazing grace many years ago. I know, as a Christian, that God’s name should only be used with reverence and love. Throughout the Bible the names of the Lord God are clearly presented as Holy, precious, and powerful. Those who misuse His name in trite conversation and in blasphemous anger greatly misunderstand His greatness and glory.

Ascribe to the Lord the glory due his name; worship the Lord in the splendor of holiness. Psalm 29:2

In Exodus 3:14 He chose to reveal His name to Moses as “I Am Who I Am” declaring His sovereignty, His self-sufficiency, and the fact that He is self-existent.

In Exodus 34:6 He chose to reveal His glory to Moses by revealing His name to him: “The LORD, the LORD, a God merciful and gracious.”

So, did I ever get around to saying anything to those people taking His name in vain on these cruises? No I did not, but, I am praying for God to give me more opportunities in the future and in His perfect timing. I pray for boldness, sensitivity, clarity, discernment, and strength to speak up when given the opportunity, and also for more creative ways to share the gospel and His word.

And, in the meantime I’m doing what I often do when something weighs on my mind: I’m writing about it. Writing ✍🏻 is so much easier….

The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous man runs into it and is safe. Proverbs 18:10

Some photos from our January and February 2025 cruises. We cruised 14 days on 3 cruises on 2 different ships, out of Cape Canaveral and Jacksonville, Florida. Our destinations were all in the Bahamas: Freeport, Nassau, Bimini, and Princess Cays. We had already visited Freeport on 3 previous cruises but this was our first visit to Bimini, and to Princess Cays. It was also our first visit to Nassau on the January cruise and then we got to stop there two more times in February. Truth be told, no matter where we go, Harold and I really would be happy just cruising, relaxing, and enjoying the views and the food. Harold and I are incredibly thankful to be able to enjoy our retirement years together. Lord willing, we have several more cruises planned this year.

Wednesday Wisdom 2025

The majority of the book of Proverbs was written by King Solomon, who is considered to be one of the wisest of men ever. While he wrote many proverbs with his sons in mind, the stories, teachings, and examples can be applied to all of us. Solomon’s teachings were not only written by a wise man, more importantly they were inspired by the Spirit of God! So, this year I’m highlighting a proverb each Wednesday, with the hashtag, #WednesdayWisdom.

January 1:
Fools not only dislike learning about the Lord, they also reject Him and the scriptures. Interestingly, the ungodly think themselves wise and imagine the godly as fools. The ungodly will stay in this in this fatal state of mind until the fear of the Lord (and only by the grace of God) becomes a reality in their own life.
#WednesdayWisdom

January 8:
The Hebrew term, “shield” that is used here, could also be defined as a “defender.” God provides wisdom and a hedge of protection around all those who follow Him and “walk in integrity.” #WednesdayWisdom

January 15:
Proverbs 3:5 is a familiar Bible verse that’s often quoted along with the next verse, however in and of itself it’s a very important verse on its own. In it we’re basically told to do one thing (to trust the Lord) and not to do the other (not to trust in our own understanding.) The key focus here is trust, specifically trusting in the Lord. Without placing our faith and trust in Him, people will naturally choose to trust themselves. It’s a heart issue and the only way to break that cycle is by turning to Jesus in repentance and faith.
#WednesdayWisdom

January 22:
The instructions referred to here are not just any instructions; they refer to the word of God, which not only guides us to eternal life in Jesus Christ, but also teaches us how we should live in the here and now. We should hold it in high regard, keep it close to our eyes, and in our heart as, “All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work.” 2 Timothy 3:16-17.

January 29:
The truth of this proverb is both profound and simple: God lights the path of believers as they look to Him with each passing day. Their life has purpose and meaning and is full of blessings from the Lord. The opposite is true for non-believers; their walk, their choices, their actions, are all in direct opposition to God and as a result their life is dark and full of unfruitful and meaningless efforts. They’re so tied up in living a life without God they don’t even recognize that their life is headed in the wrong direction or that they are doomed without Him.

February 5:
Here, we are reminded and warned to guard our eyes as they are like windows of light; whatever we place our gaze on has the potential to influence our heart. The point here is that we need to look away from sin; look purposefully and instead toward God and His righteousness. Eyes that gaze at sin bring darkness to our souls rather than light of God. Actually, every member of our body, our heart, lips, eyes, feet, etc., need to be carefully watched, lest in any way it should become the cause of sin. #WednesdayWisdom

February 12:
One day, in one way or another, each of us will take our last breath. This verse reflects on the effects of sin in the world. By the disobedience of one man (Adam) the many were made sinners, so by the one man’s (Jesus) obedience the many will be made righteous. (Romans 12:19) Essentially the bad news is that we all come into this world as sinners and have sin debt we cannot pay. The good news is that Jesus paid the sin debt of any and all who will come to Him in repentance and faith. The bad news is that unless you believe that He is who He says He is you will die in your sins. The good news is that if you have trusted Christ as your Savior you will die in Christ. Blessed are they who die in the Lord. (Revelation 14:13) #WednesdayWisdom

February 19:
The first part of this verse refers to ropes or a net such as those that are used to capture a bird or an animal, and equates the bait in these nets to the sin (inequities) that so easily attracts the sinner. Once the sinner is charmed, it naturally leads him to indulge in it. When he indulges in it he then becomes so tangled up in the net that he cannot escape. What first attracted the sinner has in turn became the means by which he is detained. The more he struggles to loose himself the more entrapped he becomes. The sin that was so attractive to him in the beginning becomes a snare from which he cannot escape. #WednesdayWisdom

February 26:
Here, Solomon urges his son to keep the godly commands that he has been taught since his youth. Godly commands from our parents help us light our way through life and help keep us on the right path. Solomon continues the remainder of this chapter specifically warning his son to stay away from evil and adulterous women. A wise son will heed his parents’ godly advice sparing himself unnecessary hardship, and likely reaping the benefits of blessed life. An unwise son, who chooses to ignore his parents’ godly advice, will very likely learn the hard way, bringing disgrace and hardship upon himself, if not worse. #WednesdayWisdom

March 5:
Solomon continues his warnings about sin with clear instructions to pay close attention to his teachings. Treasure the word of God; guard it as you would your most prized possession. Stay on the narrow path. Choose to follow Him and His commands. Choosing to follow seducing women has brought many to death, like an ox going to slaughter. Don’t fall for satan’s bait and switch. Choosing sinful desires rather than obeying God’s clear instruction leads to death. #WednesdayWisdom

March 12:
God’s word guides us to everlasting wealth and inheritance; eternal life in Him. Those who choose to follow the riches of this world are fools, like sheep being lead to slaughter. Gold, silver, and the treasures of this world lead to death. Those who choose to follow God’s word are wise. True riches and honor are found only in a saving relationship with the Lord. #WednesdayWisdom

March 19:
Proverbs Chapter 9 speaks of both the benefits of wisdom and the judgment associated with folly. Verse 8 gives us a heads up about critiquing or giving godly advice to others: fools will likely reject both you and your godly advice. Whereas the wise will likely receive you and your message, with respect and a willingness to consider applying it in their own life. #WednesdayWisdom

March 26:
Simply put, work is good; it brings us a sense of accomplishment and it also honors our parents. Good parents, who want their children to grow up to be responsible and productive adults, give their children age appropriate chores; praising and rewarding them accordingly. Lazy or spoiled privileged children with no sense of work or age appropriate responsibilities, will likely grow up to be lazy adults, bringing shame to both themselves and their parents. #WednesdayWisdom

April 2:
While money is certainly useful in the here and now, it’s of absolutely no use in the hereafter. To better put this in the proper perspective, the fact is, 10 out of 10 people die. True riches are not found in having an abundance of money or possessions, but in a saving relationship in the Lord. Those who have placed their faith and trust in the Lord in the here and now, have nothing to fear about death and the hereafter. #WednesdayWisdom

April 9:
While selfishness comes naturally to our fallen human nature, generosity is likened unto the nature of God. Blessing or ministering to others in some way, and especially when we expect nothing in return, but out of service to the Lord and in His love, oftentimes brings a sense of happiness that is practically indescribable. #WednesdayWisdom

April 16:
True Christians are both blessed by God and a blessing to others. True godliness seeks to help point others to Christ and is a natural outcome of our new nature as believers. While the battle between our old sinful nature and our new Christ-like nature is real, our new nature will grow and will produce godly fruit as we water it in prayer and the light of God’s word. #WednesdayWisdom

April 23:
There’s so much evil in the world today, I have to be careful not to be overly concerned about it. I’ve found that focusing on God and His word helps me from becoming overly anxious about evil. That, plus encouraging and kind words from others, helps me maintain a positive and happy outlook in life. #WednesdayWisdom

April 30:
The old saying that “people are known by the company they keep,” is so true. Proverbs 13:20 gives us a quick lesson on the importance of who we choose to hang out with. Choose your friends wisely, especially when you’re young. Otherwise, you may find yourself having to deal with more problems in life than you could have ever imagined. It’s far better to have only one friend that has integrity and makes right choices than a bunch of fools that consistently make wrong choices. #WednesdayWisdom

May 7:
While we live our lives in community; family, friends, neighbors, etc., this verse reminds us that we are all very much individuals. No matter how many people we surround ourselves with, we are still alone. “Alone are we born, one by one, alone do we die, one by one.” The same will be true concerning our standing before the throne of God one day. Although we’ll stand with a great multitude, we will face God’s judgement individually, one by one. #WednesdayWisdom

May 14:
The fear that is spoken of here is similar to that of a young child in awe of his father. It’s a fear that is born out of so much admiration and respect for him that a child would never think of questioning his father’s motives. Fear of the Lord is a short way of expressing real faith, real hope, and real love. So much so, that we, who are called by His name, can trust Him no matter what evil we will face in this world. #WednesdayWisdom

May 21:
The bad news about this verse is that Sheol is the place of death, Abaddon is the place of destruction, and our hearts are an open book to the Lord. He knows all of our ways and all of our thoughts; we are continually in His sight. The very real problem here is sin and the fact that the “heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it?” (Jeremiah 17:9) The good news is that Jesus offers forgiveness of sin and eternal life for anyone who will turn to Him in repentance and faith. #WednesdayWisdom

May 28:
While the Bible in its entirety solidifies the sovereignty of God over all, this verse serves to concisely define His sovereignty from the beginning to the end: He has planned and prepared everything from the beginning. He has a purpose for everyone and everything. He has a specific plan for the wicked. He will use the wicked as instruments of his wrath in the day of evil, in the time of the final judgment; in the culmination of His redemptive plan. #WednesdayWisdom

June 4:
Don’t be deceived. The devil is a master of deception. Just because something seems ok doesn’t mean that it is. This verse also warns us not to follow the crowd, as the crowd is very likely headed in the wrong direction. Follow Jesus, not other people. Jesus expands this theme in Matthew 7:13-14, “Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few.” #WednesdayWisdom

June 11:
I believe the main point of this proverb is about forgiving and loving one another. People, as natural born sinners, are bound to offend each other at times. I also believe that forgiveness doesn’t come naturally; it’s something that comes from a heart that is surrendered to Christ. When we forgive and love one another we mirror Christ who forgave us of all our sins (past, present, and future) the moment we turned to Him in repentance and faith. #WednesdayWisdom

June 18:
I believe the key to lasting friendship is unconditional love; to love one another regardless of differences or difficulties. While many of us have been blessed with several close friends in this life, not everyone can say this is true in their own life, myself included. Regardless, I think this Proverb is written in such a way to point everyone to the amazing, unconditional love of Christ, who died on the cross for our sins. Jesus is the epitome of a friend who truly loves at all times. He is the One Friend we all need and also the One Friend that commands us to “Love each other as I have loved you.” (John 15:12)

June 25:
In ancient days, strong towers or castles were known as the place to run to in times of trouble. The castle owner, who was known as the lord over the region, offered safety and protection for his people whenever they sought shelter. There is safety in the Lord, but also as this verse implies, there is safety in His very Name. The Lord’s name is a strong tower because of the person, presence, and power that His Holy Name represents. We, who have been made right with God through a relationship with Jesus Christ, are the righteous that is spoken of here; we can run to Him; He is our righteousness; His name is Jesus. #WednesdayWisdom

July 2:
Seeing people with lots of friends has always been fascinating to me. Interestingly, this verse gives contrasting views concerning those with a lot of friends vs. the one friend who sticks closer than a brother. While having good friends is a blessing, having a bunch of fair weather friends who really don’t have your back is not. Having a true friend who sticks closer than a brother will undoubtedly bring us happiness in this world, but having received Jesus as your Lord, Savior, and Friend will assure you eternal life and happiness in the world to come. #WednesdayWisdom

July 9:
Children are a blessing from the Lord and parenting is one of the most rewarding responsibilities we could ever have, but parenting is not easy. This verse reminds us that parents are responsible for disciplining their children appropriately and consistently. We are to discipline early, throughout their entire childhood, and are to never give up on them. The overwhelming most important factor is love. Discipline without love is harsh and excessive, and love without discipline is too permissive and neglectful; both of which are a recipe for disaster. While parents have been given a specific window of time to raise and biblically discipline their children, failure to do so within that window of time puts the child in danger of dire consequences in both their childhood and into their adulthood. #WednesdayWisdom

July 16:
The sovereignty of God cannot be understated, underestimated, or unappreciated. Thank God that He intervenes on our behalf and does not allow many of our own plans to come to fruition. The human heart is naturally deceitful and if it were not for the Lord’s intervention in our lives, we would be lying in a gutter somewhere, or even worse. Praise God for His plans and His purposes in our life. #WednesdayWisdom

July 23:
The nature of alcohol is such for many that one drink does not seem to be enough. The results of drunkenness produces not only a fool, but a wide range of foolish behaviors including: abusive tongues, physical altercations, promiscuity, sexual abuse, raging tempers, slothful workers, people who are generally unfit for society, and felons guilty of involuntary vehicular manslaughter; just to name a few. #WednesdayWisdom

July 30:
There’s not one of us who’s not been injured by someone else’s words or actions at one time or another. The fact is, as inhabitants of this world, no one escapes having something wrongfully done against them. This verse reminds us that we’re not to take revenge, or even wish revenge against that person who’s done us wrong. We must instead, pray about it. Forgive. Give it to God; tell Him how you feel. Let God deal with those who have done us wrong and patiently trust in Him to handle it in such a way as He sees fit, and in His perfect timing. #WednesdayWisdom

August 6:
This verse is, yet again, another wonderful reminder for Christians not to worry about the evil that is going on in our world today. While many of these evil doers, including questionable politicians, governments, governmental agencies, courts, scientists, big corporations, etc., may think they have wisdom, understanding, and counsel, yet if it’s against the Lord, it cannot prosper long; it shall not prevail. In fact, those who do evil against God are actually preparing shame and ruin for themselves that will come in due time. God is in control. #WednesdayWisdom

August 13:
The man who is careful to achieve and keep a good reputation is not only wise, but is likely an honest man with an honorable life. The man who strives to accumulate wealth and sets his heart on riches is not only a fool, but is in danger of not having much of a life. #WednesdayWisdom

August 20:
This verse is not a guarantee, but a hope that when a child grows up they will not depart from the Christian principles they were taught in their youth. As parents our influence over our children is great however we need to understand that influence includes both the good and the bad influences. In any case, there’s nothing a parent can do to guarantee our childrens’ salvation, however the likelihood of them coming to Christ is greater when parents have faithfully taught them the truths of the gospel when they were young and impressionable. #WednesdayWisdom

August 27:
These are the words of a slacker. This proverb paints a picture of the lazy man. A man who has the ability to work but refuses to do so. He much prefers to spend his time either sleeping or thinking of different excuses as to why he cannot work. This is a man who does not present himself to be wise, although he undoubtedly thinks he is. Nor does he seem to understand the biblical principle of sowing and reaping. #WednesdayWisdom.

September 3:
Envy creates envious thoughts which, unless checked right away, create unnecessary murmuring and an unattractive distrust toward the Lord. We are to instead, and in reverence and fear of the Lord, cease from fretting about the proud, the vain, and the prosperity of the ungodly. “For then you will have a future, and your hope will not be dashed.” Proverbs 23:18 #WednesdayWisdom

September 10 (🎂)
Truth, no matter what the cost, is one of the most valuable possessions one could possibly ever have, and of which should never be sold. For along with truth comes wisdom, instruction, and understanding. All these, combined with devine guidance, help us find our way through life’s land mines and allow us to pass through safely to our eternal home. Hold fast to the truth and never let it go. #WednesdayWisdom

September 17:
The house that is spoken of here is not that of a mansion that has been built by ill-gotten gain. Nor is it a house that at first look may appear well built, but upon closer inspection we find a rotten foundation. No, the house that is spoken of here is one that has been established with a firm foundation in the Lord. It is a strong house that is filled with precious and beautiful treasures from above which sets the foundation for a godly inheritance to our children’s children. #WednesdayWisdom

September 24:
The context of this verse is the great duty that is required of us when we see someone whose life is in imminent danger. Specifically, we are to come to their aid. We’re not to turn away and act as if we didn’t see what’s happening to them, regardless if we know them or not. This verse is also used in an evangelical sense, as without Christ in one’s life, the unsaved person is headed to an eternity separated from God. In fact, Proverbs 24:11 was an inspiration to Fanny Crosby in 1869 when she wrote the famous evangelical hymn, Rescue the Perishing. #WednesdayWisdom

October 1:
Our sin nature tends to make us want to take pleasure in the troubles of our enemy, but here the Bible specifically tells us not to do this. While this may very well be standard practice for unbelievers, I find it particularly distasteful to hear Christians speak in such a way that reveals their delight and satisfaction in the ruin of their enemies. Instead, we should weep and pray for them. #WednesdayWisdom

October 8:
This is one of five verses (30-34) in this chapter in which Solomon describes the vineyard of the slothful. He first describes the vineyard’s rundown condition, takes a moment to consider the whole of it, learns from it, and then summarizes it in the form of a wise observation: People who love to sleep and have no understanding or desire to work are lazy and foolish people. Their fruitless weed infested fields represent the unsanctified heart which is overgrown with thorns and nettles. The thorns and nettles represent lazy hearts which are filled with inordinate lusts; passions, pride, covetousness, sensuality, and malice towards others. They have no desire to tend to their fields, to fix a broken down fence nor set up a guard against an enemy; they’d much rather just lie down to sleep. The lazy and foolish person actions not only injures himself, but he also injures his family, and most regrettably he injures his own soul. Whereas, the souls of the wise no only recognize that we are to take care of our fields and vineyards with due diligence, but also recognize that our souls are our fields and vineyards. We are to clear the ground, plant it, sow it, and fence it in order to produce good fruit in our lives and to keep our guard up against the enemy. #WednesdayWisdom

October 15:
This proverb honors God for who He is; He is all-knowing, all-powerful, and ultimately in control. It’s God’s prerogative to conceal whatever he choses to conceal. However, it is God’s will to allow kings and authorities to investigate certain matters as they occur. God establishes kings and authorities not only to bring people to justice but also to fulfill His plans. #WednesdayWisdom

October 22:
This insightful proverb reminds us to use our words thoughtfully, purposefully, and prayerfully. Just as a beautiful gold apple is pleasing to the eye, so is a word spoken at just the right time to the listening ear who needs to hear those exact words. Words have the potential of blessing both the hearer and the speaker. A best case scenario is one who speaks prudently and timely, to one who is listening patiently and earnestly. Prayer, prudence, and patience, combined with God’s perfect timing is a beautiful example of God’s will at work in the life of His children. #WednesdayWisdom

October 29:
The far country is Heaven and the Good News is the gospel of Jesus Christ. The thirsty soul is the lost sinner, like a sheep without a shepherd. But, God has not forgotten you; He is the Good Shepherd. The Shepherd, who while counting His sheep, finds that one is missing, and seeks the one who has gone astray; He seeks the lost sinner. How refreshing for the lost sinner to hear and receive the message of the cross, like a drink of cold water to a parched throat. #WednesdayWisdom

November 5:
At first glance these two verses may seem to contradict each another but actually they complement each other. One emphasizes knowing when to keep silent and the other emphasizes knowing when to speak. The Holy Spirit helps us to know whether we should do one or the other. An example of knowing when to keep silent is by not replying to a fool. In other words, sometimes it’s wise to choose to ignore the fool and the lies that he speaks. An example of knowing when to speak in this type of scenario is by conviction; the conviction to speak the truth in love. Truth is of love, and of God who is the source of all truth. Lies are the opposite of love, and are of the devil. Foolish people are often living a life built on the lies of the devil. Pray that God will open the eyes of the foolish person to convict them of their ultimate demise without God and His truth in their life. In the meantime, it is a wise man who uses the truth of God to help convict the fool of his error. #WednesdayWisdom

November 12:
It’s wise not to presume anything about tomorrow, let alone all of the days that follow. To be clear, preparation for tomorrow is just fine; it’s the presumption of tomorrow that’s not. All of our tomorrows are in God’s hands which he wisely reserves for himself alone to know. It is the glory of God to conceal whatever he chooses to conceal from us. While we may be in the dark concerning future events, we can make the best of today by depending on God no matter what comes our way; knowing Him is the best preparation for the unknown future events that tomorrow will undoubtedly bring. #WednesdayWisdom.

November 19:
I believe this verse is for the encouragement of those who labor for the Lord. He refers to the fig tree that requires constant care as it is growing. When it comes to maturity it bears figs that taste so wonderful they’re like a reward. The same is true of Christ’s workers who’re obedient and faithful, including those who’re almost to the point of exhaustion. God is saying, your work is not done for naught; you shall see the fruit of your work and receive your reward in due time, God’s perfect timing actually. #WednesdayWisdom

November 26:
It is the fool who thinks he can excuse, blame, deny, or hide his sins away. No one will ever succeed in covering their sin. Sin separate us from God and leads to death. Those who say, “I have no sin,” deceive themselves, and the truth is not in them. (1 John 1:8) The sooner we acknowledge and turn from our sin, the better, and he who confesses his sin to God, and does not return to it, finds mercy with Him. #WednesdayWisdom

December 3:
Here we have two ancient proverbs combined together which are equally true in their own, but are particularly true when linked together. The overwhelming message here is that whatever fear or foe we face today, trusting in the Lord is always the better choice. Trusting in the Lord not only leads to safety, but also leads to eternal life in Him. #WednesdayWisdom.

December 10:
Here we come to a chapter, Proverbs 30, that was not written by Solomon, but by a man named Agur. Not much is known about Agur but that which he writes about in this chapter, but what an inspiring chapter it is! He begins and ends it with great humility, and fills everything in between with much wisdom. His humble exaltation of God’s Word is spoken from a heart that not only knows Him but has taken refuge in Him. #WednesdayWisdom.

December 17: Proverbs 31 is last chapter in the book of Proverbs and is also one of only two chapters that were not written by Solomon. This chapter was written by King Lemuel, whose words were inspired by his mother’s wise teachings. Verse 8 is self explanatory. We are called to speak up for those who can not speak for themselves. I think it not presumptuous of me to use the example of a baby in utero as a word picture. I can not think of of a better example than a voiceless developing infant inside the womb of its mother. I believe there should be no safer place for a growing baby than in its mother’s womb, and that all children are a gift from the Lord, regardless of circumstance. #WednesdayWisdom

December 24:
Proverbs 31:10-31 depicts King Lemuel’s praise for a wife of noble character, which he no doubt learned from his own mother. These verses remind me of my own sweet mother who passed away in 1998 at age 77. The whole of these verses make for an excellent ending to the Book of Proverbs. While in Ephesians and Colossians we learn that a husband is the head of his wife, as Christ is the head of the church, in this last chapter of Proverbs we learn that it is the wise, loving, modest, frugal, diligent, Christian wife who sets the tone for the entire household. The wife, who by nature is the weaker vessel, is made strong by wisdom, grace, and the fear of God. The wife who loves God first and foremost, results in both her husband and her children to “rise up and call her blessed.” (Vs 28) #WednesdayWisdom

The Word Became Flesh

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was in the beginning with God. All things were made through him, and without him was not any thing made that was made.
In him was life, and the life was the light of men. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.
John 1:1 -5

When our youngest daughter was around 6 years old I was convicted to change the way our family talked about Santa. I began emphasizing to her that Santa is for fun, but Jesus is for real.

For a child will be born to us, a son will be given to us; and the government will rest on His shoulders; and His name will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Eternal Father, Prince of Peace. Isaiah 9:6

That year our daughter eagerly shared this matter-of-fact information with a few of her first grade classmates at school one day. Apparently that didn’t sit well with the mother of at least one of her classmates, who interestingly attended the same church as we did at that time. I heard about it through the grapevine, so to speak; actually it was one day while at church. One of the ladies in my Sunday School class let me know about it. She told me that the mother of this little boy was not happy with Mackenzie or me. It was an interesting moment, to say the least. We no longer attend that church, but not for this reason.

She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins. Matthew 1:18-23

I realized back in the early 2000’s, that teaching my young daughter that Santa is for fun but Jesus is for real was was in direct opposition to what was considered widely accepted and traditional Christmas norms of the day, which was to basically tell a “white lie” to our children about Santa. I, like most of us, have fond memories of childhood Christmases which included the mystery of Santa Claus. In fact, I continued that tradition with our first two daughters, who are 15 and 11 years older than our youngest daughter, but as I matured and grew as a Christian I became increasingly uncomfortable with this tradition. In particular I was (and still am) very uncomfortable with the use of the word “believe” used in any reference to “Santa” and also the word “magic” as used in the phrase, “the magic of Christmas.”

I thought a lot about this and asked myself, why would we, as Christian parents, expect our children to believe in Jesus Christ, after years of perpetuating a “white lie” about Santa Claus while they were a young child, and especially during Christmastime!?

To be perfectly clear, I’m ok with the legend of Santa Claus and the connection with St Nickolas, but I am not ok with perpetuating the “white lie” of telling young children that Santa Claus is real.

“Bah humbug!” Some may say, but truth be told, a “white lie” is still a lie. The Bible is full of warnings about lying.

Jesus said, “You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father’s desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies.” John 8:44

The fact is, Jesus was born, to save sinners like me and like you. Jesus is real and sin is serious business. Sin has been around since Adam and Eve began their conversation with the serpent in the Garden of Eden.

Now the serpent was more cunning than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made. And he said to the woman, “Has God indeed said, ‘You shall not eat of every tree of the garden’?” Genesis 3:1

It’s a big problem. Actually, it’s a huge problem; what began in the Garden of Eden has infiltrated every aspect of life here on earth. The truth is, if you never see yourself as a sinner in need of a Savior, you will die in your sins one day and spend eternity separated from God, and that’s putting it gently.

Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. John 14:6,

And, unless you have humbled your heart, acknowledged your sin, and turned to Him in repentance and faith in Him alone, the “merry” in your “Christmas” is coming to an abrupt end one day and it won’t be pretty or nice. No amount of good intentions or good works will grant you a “get out of hell” card.

And while, good works may be a sign of salvation, the process of becoming saved has nothing to do with being “good” or doing “good things.” Salvation is by grace through faith in God. Similarly, obedience is not required for salvation, it’s a result of salvation.

For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them. Ephesians 2:8-10

Or, whether you’re “naughty or nice.”

For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Romans 3:23.

Salvation has everything to do with the One who took our place on the cross and paid our sin debt in full. He made a way. He who was born and who died so….

that whoever believes in him may have eternal life. “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God. And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil. For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed. But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that it may be clearly seen that his works have been carried out in God.” John 3:15-21

Merry Christmas 🎄

Bye For Now

A few years ago my little brother started calling me almost everyday. It was usually around 1:00 p.m. Dallas time and 11:00 a.m. Seattle time. That was when The Price is Right was over, which was one of his favorite shows. I think he got a kick out of me being a contestant on The Price is Right in 2005, so that’s probably why he thought of me when he’d watch it. Harold and I would try to catch The Price is Right as often as we could so we could talk about the show when Dougie called. We’d talk about who won a car, who overbid, when someone won both showcases, or when they both lost! Sometimes when he called I was busy so he’d leave me a voicemail but would still call me back later if I didn’t get right back with him. I have several voicemails saved on my phone from him:

“This is Doug. Bye for now.”

ALL of his phone messages were pretty much just like this. Actually, since his passing on November 19, 2024, listening to some of his messages again has brought me a fresh perspective on the hope of the resurrection.

Although he was mentally disabled since birth, Dougie believed in Jesus. He enjoyed going to Sunday School, church, and Vacation Bible School as a child, and attended church well into his adulthood with mom until she was no longer able to take him due to her illness. He had a childlike faith and was “forever young.”

Dad, me, Eldon, Denny, Joyce, Dougie, Ronnie, & Mom. Our family Christmas card, 1960.

“Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.” Matthew 19:14

Dougie also knew right from wrong. One day back in the 1980’s he came up to me, upset with himself about telling a lie. His humility was so genuine. We prayed about it together, in faith, asking for Jesus’ forgiveness.

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9

I look forward to seeing my little brother again one day in heaven, but for now his soul is with Jesus.

So we are always of good courage. We know that while we are at home in the body we are away from the Lord, for we walk by faith, not by sight. Yes, we are of good courage, and we would rather be away from the body and at home with the Lord. 2 Corinthians 5:6-8

Because,

Jesus said, “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live, even though he dies; and whoever lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?” John 11:25

The Bible has a lot to say about the promise of the resurrection.

I want to remind you of the gospel I preached to you… that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, and that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures. 1 Corinthians 15:1-4

Christ has indeed been raised, the first fruits of those who have fallen asleep. For since death came through a man, the resurrection of the dead comes also through a man. For as in Adam all die, so in Christ all will be made alive. 1 Corinthians 15:20-22

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead. 1 Peter 1:3

Our resurrected bodies will be spiritual, imperishable, and raised in glory and power. Resurrected bodies will never experience sickness, decay, deterioration, or death.

The last couple of times I saw Dougie was in May and June 2024.

Debbie, Dougie, and me at a downtown Burien, Washington restaurant. Dougie and me at Angle Lake Park, May 27, 2024.

Harold and I visited Dougie and my niece, Debbie, in May 2024 on our way to an Alaskan cruise to celebrate Harold’s 76th birthday. We had lunch together at a downtown Burien, Washington restaurant, and then we took Dougie to Angle Lake Park later that day and sat and watched the children play. He enjoyed watching them run around the water spray, having fun, and hearing them laugh.

I gave Dougie a 1988 picture of him and Mom. His eyes lit up and a big smile emerged as soon as he saw it! May 26, 2024.

My niece was Dougie’s caregiver for 28 years and I believe he was very happy with the life and the home that Debbie provided for him. He had a wonderful, happy disposition! I also believe it was part of God’s plan for my niece to be his caregiver. She grew up loving him as her uncle and ended up loving him like a son. He was a special blessing to everyone in our family and to the many who knew and loved him.

Harold, Dougie, and me in downtown Burien,
June 4, 2024

Harold and I returned to Seattle after the cruise on June 4, and visited with Dougie in downtown Burien. I gave him a warm beanie from Alaska in anticipation of the cold weather this coming winter, not knowing at the time that Dougie would not be going through another Seattle winter.

Dougie wanted to go to his favorite nearby restaurant, The Little Chicken Burger, so we walked over to it. The picture of us at this restaurant is the last picture that Dougie and I got together, and the last day that I saw him in person.

I last talked to him on the phone on Monday, November 18, the anniversary date of our dad’s passing. Dougie passed away the next day, Tuesday November 19, 2024. According to the doctor, he passed away approximately 10:00 a.m. likely due to a sudden heart attack or blood clot.

My little brother, mentally disabled since birth, was actually very wise. He left me several messages reminding me that because of our relationship with Jesus, our parting was only temporary and that we will see each other again in the future:

“This is Doug. Bye for now.”

Things That Make You Go Hmmm…

I’ve long found it interesting when people who identify as Christian support abortion on demand. The Bible is perfectly clear about the sanctity of life. To be clear, abortions on demand are not typically due to a medical complication like the pro-abortion commercials on television. The fact is, the overwhelming reason why women get an abortion is because they don’t want their baby that’s growing inside their womb.

I also find it discouraging when I learn of “so called” Christian churches and prominent “so called” Christian leaders who support Kamala Harris and her abortion on demand agenda. There’s absolutely nothing Christian about murdering an innocent baby in the womb.

Recently, I learned of a group called “Evangelicals for Harris” which in itself is shocking enough, but perhaps more shocking, this group has been endorsed by the late evangelist Billy Graham’s granddaughter, Jerushah Duford. Her mother is Virginia Graham Tchividjian, Billy Graham’s eldest daughter. This organization actually used images and quotes of Billy Graham in support of Kamala Harris’ and her liberal political agenda. Franklin Graham, Billy Graham’s son, spoke out strongly against the use of Billy Graham’s images and quotes by this organization in this way. Franklin stated that his “father appreciated the conservative values and policies of President DonaldTrump in 2016, and if he were alive today, my father’s views and opinions would not have changed.”

The heart of the wise inclines to the right, but the heart of the fool to the left. Ecclesiastes 10:2

In the meantime, Jerushah Duford continues to attempt to frame her political preferences as biblical and express her “hope” that fellow evangelicals will join in with her to support Kamala Harris. She calls Donald Trump out for his sins, while propping Kamala Harris up as the only viable good choice. As if Donald Trump’s sins are tantamount and Kamala Harris’ sins are non existent. Jerushah Duford purports that Harris is the only candidate that “embodies” the virtues of humility, justice, and love. Oh really?! All while Kamala Harris touts an agenda made up of the most extreme radical secular policies, and the most aggressive pro-abortion agenda in the history of any U.S. presidential candidate to date. Simply put, Kamala Harris’ policies and agendas are a direct assault against Christianity, and not the “Christianity” of Evangelicals for Harris or Jerushah Duford, but the Christianity of the Bible.

Now I know that there’re many other important issues in this year’s presidential election, but I believe the issue of abortion is by far the most important issue, as it involves the life and death of the most vulnerable among us, babies in their mother’s wombs. Kamala Harris and her supporters have zero authority over life and death. God, and His Son Jesus Christ are the only authors of life and of death.

“You killed the Author of life, whom God raised from the dead. We are witnesses to this.” Acts 3:15

And to this people you shall say: “Thus says the Lord: Behold, I set before you the way of life and the way of death.” Jeremiah 21:8

As for me, I believe it all comes down to who and what you believe. Do you believe in the God of the Bible and in the truth of His word, or do you believe in the god of this world and in the lies of the devil?

Some Pro-abortion lies:

Lie # 1. “My body, my choice.”

A Feminist slogan, circa 1969, adopted by today’s Democratic Party, and this year’s “selected, not elected” Democratic candidate for the President of the United States, Kamala Harris.

The truth is, your body is not your own.

“Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.”1 Corinthians 6:19–20

Each of us are created in the image of God, regardless of circumstances; we are intentionally distinct from the rest of all creation. We also have inherent value, dignity, and uniqueness of human life, regardless of age or stage of development, including babies in the womb.

“So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.” Genesis 1:27

Lie #2 “Reproductive Healthcare”

A catchphrase for those who want the freedom to abort babies upon demand, anytime, anywhere, and for any reason.

The truth is, it’s not healthcare; it’s the exact opposite of healthcare. It’s the killing of a baby in the mother’s womb.

Healthcare is NOT found in an abortion facility.

But, truth IS found in God’s word:

“You shall not murder.” Exodus 20:13

God hates …. “haughty eyes, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood,” Proverbs 6:17

Lie #3 “If you cannot control when and how you choose to bring your children in this world,…there is no American dream.” Oprah Winfrey speaking at the 2024 Democrat Convention about “autonomy” and access to reproductive rights.

Being famous and wealthy doesn’t necessarily make one wise or correct. Life and death is under the authority of God, not women who declare that it’s their right to “control” the life and death of their children. It’s no wonder that Oprah is under the impression that the “control” of life and death of a baby is a right. Oprah Winfrey, the same woman who declared publicly in 2008 on her popular television show that “there are many paths to what you call God” and “there couldn’t possibly be just one way.” Her promotion of her pagan philosophy of “multiple paths to God” and the book, “A Course in Miracles” is pure heresy. Oprah does not speak for the God of the Bible.

It’s my prayer, regardless of the outcome of this years presidential election, that God will grant Kamala Harris, Jerushah Duford, Oprah Winfrey, and all those who support abortion on demand, the gift of saving grace:

A saving grace that brings them to faith in Jesus Christ alone.

A saving grace that reveals the sin in their life, and brings them to repentance.

A saving grace that looks to God and His infallible word as the final authority on how we all should live our lives.

And,

A saving grace that says, “No” to the world and, “Yes” to God.

“And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.” 1 Corinthians 6:11

“For he who finds me finds life and obtains favor from the Lord. But he who sins against me injures himself; all those who hate me love death.” Proverbs 8:35–36

Each and Everyone

My husband and I enjoyed a Caribbean cruise this month in celebration of my 70th birthday. We visited Mahogany Bay Roatan Honduras, Costa Maya Mexico, and Puerto Maya Cozumel Mexico.

We enjoy cruising and are hoping to go as often as we can, now that we’re both retired. The ship on this cruise was the Carnival Jubilee. It’s Carnival’s newest and largest ship, and is based out of the Port of Galveston. The passenger capacity is well over 6500 and although I heard the ship was not full on this cruise, it was packed wall to wall with cruisers.

Out of all those people, there were two of them in particular that caught my attention and brought smiles to my heart. The first one was a lady named Stacy. She was probably in her 50’s or 60’s and was traveling with a large family group. We first met on our van ride over to the seaport from the cruise parking lot. We saw each other often throughout the 7-day cruise and enjoyed talking with one another. Stacy was like a ray of sunshine, always smiling, and quite friendly. Her family, in particular her sister, was very attentive and caring about Stacy and I admired her for that. Stacy was intellectually disabled.

The other person was named Reece. He too was always smiling and very friendly; young, probably in his early to mid 20’s, and very outgoing! He too had some type of intellectual disability but he didn’t let that stop him from meeting people, participating with many of the group activities, dancing, and interacting with the cruise director. Unlike Stacy, who was always surrounded by family, Reece was out and about by himself every time I saw him. Now, his family may have been nearby watching him from afar, but he definitely was quite independent. The first time we met was on an elevator ride and as usual, he was all by himself. I immediately recognized him and started up a conversation. His eyes lit up with joy when Harold and I told him that we saw him dancing with the cruise director earlier. I told him he was a good dancer! He smiled from ear to ear!

Now since being back home from our cruise, I heard a snippet of a radio program in which someone was saying that Iceland has infamously become known as the first country to claim that no one gives birth to a child with Down’s syndrome there. Apparently they’re very proud of the fact that they have aggressively and intentionally pursued prenatal testing and subsequent abortions.

After hearing that on the radio, I’ve since learned that isn’t actually true. Iceland doesn’t have a zero incidence of Down syndrome births. They just like to claim that they do. There are still some Down syndrome children born in Iceland but the numbers are dwindling.

Somehow this all put me in mind of Nazi Germany’s Holocaust; the slaughter of approximately 6 million Jews, and approximately 5 million other people groups including the disabled.

How is it that a person, or a group of people, think that they have the right to dispose of people they dislike, who don’t look like them, don’t act like them, or because they’re disabled in some way?

When I think of all of the joy I’ve had in my life from my younger brother, Dougie, who is intellectually disabled,

And our daughter Megan, who is physically disabled from being born with Spina Bifida.

And, our sweet 3 year old granddaughter, Remi, who has Down syndrome,

I feel sorry for people who don’t know that kind of joy, and that kind of love. They’re not only a blessing to me. They’re each a blessing to so many others and in so many ways.

Each and everyone of us are uniquely planned by God.

“Your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book and planned beforehand to the end.” Psalm 139:16

God forms us in our mother’s womb.

This is what the Lord says—He who made you, who formed you in the womb. (Isaiah 44:2)

Each and everyone of us are made in the image of God, including the ones you may dislike, who don’t look like you, don’t act like you, have some type of disability, or a mother who doesn’t want them.

So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27

God is sovereign.

The Bible says, “His hand is the life of every living thing and the breath of every human being” (Job 12:10).

God cares so very deeply for each and everyone of us, including the ones you may not like, who don’t look like you, don’t act like you, have some type of disability, or a mother who doesn’t want them.

God is the author of life.

“Your hands shaped me and made me . . . Did You not clothe me with skin and flesh and knit me together with bones and sinews? You gave me life.” (Job 10:8–12)

Finally, as the giver of life, God is also the authority on death. He commands us not to take the life of an innocent person: “Do not shed innocent blood” (Jeremiah 7:6.)

“There are six things that the LORD hates, seven that are an abomination to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, and

hands that shed innocent blood,

a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that make haste to run to evil, a false witness who breathes out lies, and one who sows discord among brothers.” Proverbs 6:16.

The Race

I’ve never been much of an Olympics fan, but there are a few things I will remember about the 2024 Paris Summer Olympics. Actually it’s probably better described in a range of emotions.

I was disgusted (but not surprised) with the opening ceremony. The debauchery and blasphemy was overt. I didn’t intentionally watch it but caught a few glimpses of it while my husband had the TV on. He’s a huge sports fan but doesn’t care about the opening ceremony.

I laughed at my husband as he cheered for USA basketball, track, and swimming teams. Whenever they won, he’d jump up off the couch and run around the house waiving the American flag shouting, “USA! USA! USA!” It was enthusiasm overload combined with his need to get up off of the couch and do some exercise!

A feeling of sorrow for the athletes who were simply there to compete in their individual sport but were overshadowed by the Olympic committee’s woke agenda.

And, a feeling of joy for the one girl who stood out among all of the rest: Sydney McLaughlin. She set a new world record and received the gold medal in the women’s 400-meter hurdles. Afterwards she boldly stated, “Records come and go, the glory of God is eternal.” and “I no longer run for self-recognition, but to reflect His perfect will that is already set in stone. I don’t deserve anything. But by grace, through faith, Jesus has given me everything.”

Her faith and her words reminded me of another Olympian, who also stood out among all of the rest, except it was a long time ago; 100 years ago to be exact. His name was Eric Liddell (pronounced “little.”) He competed in the 1924 Summer Olympics Games in Paris.

Eric was born in China in 1902 where his parents were both Scottish missionaries with the London Mission Society. As a youth Eric attended boarding school near London with his brother. They returned to Edinburgh, Scotland to be with their family as often as possible. Eric attended Edinburgh University, played on the Rugby team, trained to race in the Olympics, and was a young man of integrity and of devout faith. He refused to run or play sports on Sundays, the Lord’s Day.

Eric had decided months before the 2024 Olympic Games that he would not participate in any races that were on Sunday. His favorite race was the 100-meter race, however upon learning that the 100-meter heats were scheduled to be on a Sunday he simply withdrew his longing to run in the 100-meter race and set his sights on two other races. He decided to compete in the 200-meter race and also to train for the 400-meter race, all while studying in his last year in college and while teaching at his church. His schedule was so full he decided that he needed to drop something. That something was Rugby.

When he went to the 1924 Summer Olympics in Paris, he held true to his convictions. He did not compete in his favorite race, the 100-meter race, and instead, ran and placed third in the 200-meter race and won a bronze medal for Scotland! He then took everyone by surprise by placing first in the 400-meter and winning the gold medal for Scotland!

“I believe God made me for a purpose, but he also made me fast. And when I run I feel His pleasure.” #EricLiddell

A year after competing in the Olympics, at age 23, Eric went back to China where he served as a missionary teacher for Chinese boys for approximately 20 years. He was captured and put in a Japanese civilian internment camp, fell ill and passed away in 1925. It was reported that while he was in the internment camp, he ministered to others up until his death.

Years later, His widow Florence recalled that “Eric always said that the great thing for him was that when he stood by his principles and refused to run in the 100-metres, he found that the 400-metres was really his race. He said he would never have known that otherwise. He would never have dreamed of trying the 400 at the Olympics.”

Eric Liddell’s life story was beautifully told in the 1981 Oscar winning film, Chariots of Fire.

The truth is, as Christian’s we’re all called to run the race that God has set before us.

Eric Liddell most certainly ran the race that was set before him and I’m not necessarily referring to his Olympic feats. I’m referring to the race of a life well lived for Christ.

“Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us.” Hebrews 12:1

Perfect

I like all my ducks in a row.

Seriously. My husband keeps four rubber ducks on the dashboard of his 2018 Jeep Wrangler. I straighten them up in a row every time I get in his Jeep.

I like things to be straight.

If a picture is hanging up on a wall and it needs to be straightened, I straighten it; no matter whose picture it is or whose wall it’s on.

I like colors to coordinate.

When decorating, I pick a main color and specific coordinating colors, and run with it. No exceptions! If it doesn’t match, it’s a no.

I like things to look equal or balanced.

If I trim one fingernail due to a nail breakage, I trim the others to match the one.

I could go on and on but I think it’s safe to say I’m a bit of a perfectionist.

I’ve known this about myself for years and believe all of the above are harmless expressions of autonomy. As a child abuse survivor, living in some out-of-control situations as a child, expressing myself in this way is a relatively “safe” form of autonomy as an adult.

Safe, when it’s confined to personal preferences such as what I listed above, and I also think it could be an asset in artistic endeavors.

Not-so-safe, when perfectionism spills over into personal expectations that are unrealistic or too high; being overly critical of yourself or others; or when it leads to real life obsessive compulsive disorders or depression.

Over the years, God has helped “reign me in” whenever I’ve experienced the occasional unrealistic expectation and during periods of having overly critical feelings about myself or others in my life.

Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own. Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Philippians 3:12-14

Fast forward to today, I’m two weeks post-op from having reconstructive nose surgery. Just a few days before the reconstructive surgery I had Mohs surgery to remove a basel cell skin cancer. The Mohs surgery went five rounds and left a big whole on the tip of my nose. It all happened so fast and came as quite a surprise.

It’s early in my healing process. My nose is still healing and I have several months before the scars fade. I really think the reconstructive surgeon did a good job, especially given what he had to work with. However, I can already see that my nose has some asymmetry about it. In other words, it’s not perfect (says the perfectionist in me) but, News Flash: it never was.

Thankfully, as a Christ follower, I can rest in knowing that as imperfect as I have always been, I’m perfect in God’s eyes, and it has nothing to do with my outward appearance and everything to do with my relationship with Jesus. God see’s me through His Son, the author and perfecter of my faith.

Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God. Hebrews 12:1-3

I’m fixing my eyes on Jesus, no matter what life sends my way. Life is not perfect. However, a Christian’s life should be different from non believers. Not perfect; no, we’ll never be perfect this side of heaven, but we are called to live a changed life. A changed life that increasingly demonstrates that He is our strength and our power, no matter what.

God is my strength and power: and he maketh my way perfect. 2 Samuel 22:33

I’m thankful the cancer is gone and for skilled reconstructive plastic surgeons. I’m thankful for family and friends who prayed and cared about me; but most of all I’m thankful for my Savior who many years ago “sought me, and bought me with His redeeming love.”

God—his way is perfect; the word of the Lord proves true; he is a shield for all those who take refuge in him. Psalm 18:30

A Wedding in Paradise

“Tulum? Where’s Tulum?” Ha! That was me, the first time I ever heard of Tulum, Mexico. It was the day our oldest daughter, Michelle and her fiancé Marty, told us that they wanted to get married in Tulum!

Let me back up a bit. Michelle and Marty met in 2017 and began dating. The first time I met Marty he reminded me a little bit of Harold. He’s tall, outgoing, and has huge sense of humor. So it was no surprise approximately a year and a half later when he asked for Harold’s blessing on his proposal of marriage to Michelle. Actually, I believe he first asked our grandsons, Colby and Gabriel, then Harold. What was the surprise, was Tulum!

I soon learned that Tulum, in the last 10 years or so, has become one of the most popular tourist destinations in Mexico. It’s located in what’s known as heart the Rivera Maya region on the Caribbean Sea. More precisely, it’s on the eastern side of the Yucatan Peninsula, in the state of Quintana Roo.

This is where Michelle and Marty chose the beautiful Dreams Tulum Resort and Spa, complete with a wedding package and an all inclusive hotel package for the guests. Together, they planned every detail of their June 2019 wedding:

Thursday, June 27th – Welcome Party and Tequila Tasting

Friday, June 28th – Wedding & Reception (best day of our lives!)

Saturday, June 29th – Free day and/or Group Catamaran Cruise

Sunday, June 30th – Farewell Breakfast & Goodbyes XO

Actually, a few days prior to the big day, they had a private wedding ceremony at Marty’s hometown church, so that his elderly grandparents who couldn’t come to Mexico, could witness them marry. It was also an official wedding ceremony, as legally binding Mexican weddings require quite a bit of paperwork.

The Wednesday before the schedule of events were to begin, we flew into Cancun and took a shuttle to the hotel. We enjoyed the extra time in Tulum getting familiar with the resort and all of the amenities.

The Tulum wedding ceremony was simply beautiful. Set on the beach with a gentle breeze, Marty’s dad, Steve, officiated the ceremony.

The reception was also beautiful. Set inside a cleared outdoor area surrounded by tropical trees and greenery, we ate, laughed, and danced in the moonlight. We chose “Michelle” by The Beatles for Harold and Michelle’s Father/Daughter dance, as I used to sing it to her when she was a baby!

The following day we enjoyed a catamaran cruise on the ocean.

It was a such a memorable and wonderful time with family and friends.

It was a wedding in paradise!

And now these three things remain: faith, hope, and love. But, the greatest of these is love. 1 Corinthians 13:13

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