Joy!

Joy!

When I was in junior high school from 1966 to 1969, the journalism class put out a monthly publication with the current school happenings and various articles written by journalism students. One month it included a section with comments from several students who had completed the following statement,

ā€œHappiness isā€¦ā€

I wish I had saved a copy of it, but didn’t, and I don’t remember any of the answers but I do remember the different types of comments. Some were funny, some were trying to be funny but weren’t, and a few were really sweet. I remember this giving me a glimpse into the different personalities of my classmates.

So, how would you fill in the blank?

“Happiness is…”

I know completing that statement might be difficult for some. I think it’s mostly because happiness is often circumstantial and is likely determined by what’s currently going on in your life. It can be difficult to be happy when life isn’t going well, when life is hard, and when tears are many.

But I do believe there’s a joy that transcends our circumstances. It’s a joy that remains in and through the difficult times in life. It’s a godly joy, and it comes from knowing the Lord and from looking to Him in all of life’s circumstances; both good and bad.

ā€œYou make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.ā€ Psalm 16:11

The joy of the Lord is actually more than a belief; it’s my experience. Joy in just knowing the Lord. Joy in the good times. Joy in the bad times. There have been many times in my life where God has given me peace in the middle of the storm, and joy in spite of my circumstances. Times when I trusted in Him no matter what, and rejoiced in Him no matter what.

Because,

The Bible tells us, regardless of our present circumstances, that we are to rejoice in the Lord. When we look to Him and praise Him in worship, our hearts are filled with His joy.

ā€œRejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice.ā€ Philippians 4:4

Even when life is difficult.

So today, if you find yourself feeling down, upset, lonely, or sad, it’s my prayer that God will surround you with His presence and fill you with joy, peace, and hope in Him.

ā€œMay the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.ā€ Romans 15:13

Here are the first two verses and the chorus to a sweet old children’s song (author unknown) about the joy of the Lord. Perhaps you remember it from long ago. May it bless you as you read (and sing) along today.

Title: I’ve Got the Joy, Joy, Joy, Joy!

Verse 1:

I’ve got the joy, joy, joy, joy down in my heart.

Where?

Down in my heart!

Where?

Down in my heart!

I’ve got the joy, joy, joy, joy down in my heart,

Down in my heart to stay!

Chorus:

And I’m so happy, so very happy,

I’ve got the love of Jesus in my heart

Down in my heart.

And I’m so happy, so very happy,

I’ve got the love of Jesus in my heart.

Verse 2:

I’ve got the love of Jesus, love of Jesus down in my heart.

Where?

Down in my heart!

Where?

Down in my heart!

I’ve got the love of Jesus, love of Jesus down in my heart.

Where?

Down in my heart to stay.

Chorus:

And I’m so happy, so very happy

I’ve got the love of Jesus in my heart.

Down in my heart.

And I’m so happy, so very happy

I’ve got the love of Jesus in my heart.

Mother’s Day

Mother’s Day

As the years have gone by, Mother’s Day has become one of my favorite holidays. My perfect Mother’s Day includes food, family, flowers, fun, and a Mother’s Day card.

So in the days leading up to Mother’s Day, I always think of my mom who passed away in 1998. I was blessed to have her in my life for the first 44 years of my life. She was the main role model in my life and in so many ways—as a woman, a wife, a mom, and a Christian. I will forever remember her praying on her knees by her bedside at night, and studying her Bible in the early mornings when I was a child.

ā€Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue. She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.ā€ Proverbs 31:25-28

My mom and me in Indianapolis back in the late 1970s.

My grandma, my mom, and me in 1979.

My mom passed away at the age of 77 after suffering for several years from Alzheimer’s Disease.

ā€œStrength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue. She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.ā€ Proverbs 31:25-28

My grandma was a godly woman too. When I was a child I loved going to her house just to be close to her. When I was a teenager and again as a young adult, she would pull me aside and tell me that she was praying for me. I knew she loved me and she knew I needed prayer.

Here’s a photo of my grandma in our kitchen nook in Indianapolis back in the early 1970s. She was trimming the meat off a turkey to make us some of her delicious homemade turkey noodle soup.

ā€œOlder women should be reverent in their behavior, not slanderers or addicted to much wine. They should teach the younger women to love their husbands and children, be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, so that the word of God may not be reviled.ā€ Titus 2:3-5


My grandma was recognized and honored in her community as ā€œMother of the Yearā€ in the 1960s.

And here is a photo of my great-grandma Stockrahm. I think this picture was taken in the early 1950s. She lived with my grandma in Frankfort, Indiana, when she was elderly and where my grandma took care of her until she passed away. I was very young back then, but I do remember she was very quiet and that my grandma was very protective of her. I remember feeling so sorry for her because she was fragile and ill.

My great grandma Stockrahm.

ā€œRather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.ā€ 1 Peter 3:4

I’m so very thankful for my mom, my grandma, and great-grandma. They were wonderful and godly mothers.

My mom and grandma taught me that as mothers and grandmothers, we should never give up. We are to continue in prayer for each one of our loved ones. We are to continue modeling Christ to our family, and to take advantage of any opportunities to share Christ with our children and grandchildren. Our influence has an eternal impact on the lives and futures of our children, our grandchildren, and so on.

ā€œEven when some children will not let us speak to them about religion, they cannot prevent us speaking for them to God. Never, never let us forget that the children for whom many prayers have been offered, seldom finally perish.ā€ #JCRyle

ā€œGood mothers are very dear to their children. There’s no mother in the world like our own mother.ā€ #CharlesSpurgeon

ā€œTo be a mother is by no means second class. Men may have the authority in the home, but the women have the influence. The mother, more than the father, is the one who molds and shapes those little lives from day one.ā€ #JohnMacArthur

I’m so thankful that being a mother was in God’s plan for me. I thank Him for our three daughters, who are mothers now as well, but more importantly, they’re Christian mothers.

My girls and me.

ā€œI have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.ā€ 3 John 1:4

Mother’s Day 2021

Mother’s Day 2022

ā€œChildren’s children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children.ā€ Proverbs 17:6

Mother’s Day 2023

Mother’s Day 2024

Mother’s Day 2025

Called By Name

Called By Name

ā€œElaine Crandell! Come on down! You’re the next contestant on The Price is Right!ā€

I first remember watching ā€œThe Price is Rightā€ sometime after I graduated from high school in 1972. I continued watching it on and off over the years, basically whenever I just happened to be at home during the day. I never thought I could ever be a contestant on the show until sometime after 1989, when I started working for Delta Air Lines. My travel benefits at Delta opened up a whole new world of possibilities for me and my family.

So in January 2005, my daughter Megan and I flew to Los Angeles for three days of sightseeing and shows.

Now instead of going to bed the night before the show, like any normal person might do, we left the comfort of our warm hotel room and spent the night standing (in my daughter’s case, sitting in her wheelchair) in the cold, in the dark, in downtown Los Angeles, on the sidewalk just outside of CBS Television City studios.

We arrived outside the studio really early, around midnight actually, which made us the third group in line, and pretty much assured us we’d be able to exchange our tickets for a studio admission number at 6:00 a.m. We spent the night trying to keep warm, eating bagels, and talking with everyone around us in line. It was fun but in the middle of the night I started feeling sick and went back to the rental car to lay down. I couldn’t sleep so I got up and got back in line. By the time 6:00 a.m. rolled around, the line had grown around the block and out of sight, and I had a soar throat, but, we got our studio admission numbers!

We left to go back to the hotel with strict instructions to be back within three hours to get back in another line. We freshened up but were afraid to lay down thinking we might oversleep.

About three hours later, with our admission numbers in hand, we got back in line at CBS Television City. This was about a three hour process and although we were exhausted, it turned out to be a nice experience. It was here I met a young man who was a previous showcase winner a few years before. He was now working as a student advisor at a college and was back in line on this day with a group of students from his college. We talked for a while about a lot of different things, including my faith in Christ.

Continuing our way through the admission line, we encountered the show producers who were conducting interviews with each one of us, one by one. I noticed they were very personable and were taking notes as they did their interviews. The producer who interviewed me asked me what I did for a living. I smiled and told him, ā€œI make mad people happy!ā€ He laughed and then asked me what I really did. I explained that I was a customer service agent for Delta Air Lines and that I help passengers and agents resolve various problems and issues.

He must have liked my answer.

Within a couple of hours, I heard my name:

ā€œElaine Crandell! Come on down! You’re the next contestant on The Price is Right!ā€

I jumped up, screaming, and ran up to the podium. Within a few minutes I got the winning bid on a metal detector and ran up on stage. At this point my heart was pumping and my mind was racing with so many thoughts: ā€œMercy, those lights are so bright! Do I look sick? Do I need more make up? Do I look like I’ve been up all night?!ā€ Suddenly I found myself talking with Bob Barker and playing The Range Game. I looked back to find my daughter in the crowd and all I saw was what seemed to be everyone telling me to stop. I hit the stop button but it was a tad bit too soon.

They cut to a commercial break and whisked me off stage to sign a bunch of legal papers: one giving my consent to be a contestant on a CBS game show, another explaining that I understood that I’d be responsible for any and all tax implications of my prize winnings, and yet another paper that gave me an option to decline any or all of my gifts.

By the time I finished signing all the papers it was time to go back on stage to spin the Big Wheel in the Showcase Showdown. My 95, in one spin, won me the chance to bid on a showcase!

During one of the next commercial breaks, a stage manager came up to talk with me. He was so kind. Talking with him really helped calm my nerves. My only regret at this point was that I realized then that I forgot to say, ā€œHello!ā€ to my family while waiting for the Big Wheel to stop.

So then came the chance to win the showcase. Mine was a set of video phones, a Colorado Hot Air Balloon trip, a Colorado ski vacation, and a ski boat. I had no idea how much that ski boat was worth but decided to bid low as I didn’t want to overbid. My mind raced back to a few weeks before when my husband and I were invited to go on a ski boat but we declined because neither of us skied. I suddenly wished we’d gone as maybe the price of it would have came up in our conversations. Oh well, too late now.

As it turned out, the ski boat was worth a lot more money that I thought. I underbid my showcase by over $25K and lost to my opponent who also underbid her showcase, but by less.

What a day! All 24 hours of it! We went back to our hotel and as soon as the excitement wore down we both fell asleep in exhaustion.

A few weeks later I made a T-shirt to remember the experience. I used the photo of my expression when I realized I’d lost the showcase and titled it ā€œThe Price was Wrong!ā€ Ha!

In retrospect, so much of what happened was right. I enjoyed and shared a great experience with my daughter. I won a metal detector worth $1100, which I still have. I got to be a contestant on one of the longest running game shows in television history. I got to meet Bob Barker, and I got to share my faith with a stranger.

In the big picture of life, ā€œThe Price is Rightā€ is just a TV game show. My name was called and I won a gift.

Oh so much more importantly, Jesus knows my name! By faith, I’ve received the gift of eternal life; life here and now, and life in the ever after.

Not because I’m a ā€œgood person.ā€ Not because I was baptized or a member of a church.

But because I trusted in Jesus and His plan of salvation one night many years ago, when God lovingly convicted me that I was a sinner in desperate need of a Savior. I responded and called out to Him in repentance and faith, and placed my trust in Jesus alone.

It was Jesus who took the penalty for my sins on the cross; He paid the price in full on my behalf. God, the Creator, Sustainer, and Author of Life, made a way for a sinner like me to be redeemed.

The Price Jesus Paid is Right, and it was according to His perfect plan and unfathomable love; it’s for all He calls to come and follow Him, for all who will respond in repentance and faith.

Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine. Isaiah 43:1

Jesus Revolution Movie

For several years, beginning back in the early 2000s, I was a frequent listener to Greg Laurie’s daily radio ministry program, ā€œA New Beginning.ā€ I also followed his podcasts when they became available a few years later.  I found him to be very likable and an effective evangelist. I have several of his books, The Great Compromise, Worldview, Run to Win, and Lost Boy, with my favorite being The Great Compromise.

In his book, The Great Compromise, Greg Laurie outlines the many ways people compromise in their faith. He offers examples of great men of faith in the Bible who stood on God’s Word during times of testing and trials. He points out that if we are to fight the good fight of faith and complete the race to the finish, we too must rely on God’s Word. He reminds us that God has provided us with everything we need to equip us in the Scriptures.

Harvest Christian Fellowship, Riverside, California in January 2006, with my two oldest daughters, Michelle and Megan (in the wheelchair) and back when we all had the same hair color. Actually mine was gray even back then but my dark hair came out of a bottle!

On a January 2006 visit to California, I visited Harvest Christian Fellowship in Riverside, California with two of my daughters, for a Sunday morning service.

Greg Laurie and Ethan at Prestonwood Baptist Church, February, 2009

In 2009, my oldest daughter Michelle and I went to hear Greg Laurie preach at Prestonwood Baptist Church in Dallas. This is a large Southern Baptist church in Plano, Texas, where Dr. Jack Graham is the senior pastor. Michelle just so happened to bring her stepson, Ethan, along with her that night. Ethan sat through the entire program and heard the gospel presented by Greg Laurie. He went forward to profess his faith in Christ that very evening. This photo of Greg Laurie and Ethan was taken out in the church lobby after the service was over and as we were on our way out of the front door.

A few years later, I went to his 2016 Harvest America Crusade in Dallas, also with my daughter Michelle, and then again to his 2018 Harvest America Crusade in Dallas, where I sang in the choir.

So, it’s fair to say I’m very familiar with Greg Laurie’s ministry, although I have to say I have not followed his ministry recently like I used to. For the past several years I have shifted more toward Reformed Bible teachers. I have also developed a dislike of popular contemporary Christian music being used in church worship services, but perhaps that is a story for another day.

When I heard late in 2022 that Greg Laurie was involved in a new movie, Jesus Revolution, and that it was going to be on a limited release schedule in February 2023, I was hopeful that it would be shown in a theatre near me. I’m old enough to remember the June 1971 Time magazine cover photo, ā€œThe Jesus Revolutionā€ and I also remember hearing people talking about the ā€œJesus Movement.ā€ I was 16 years old at the time.

So in February 2023, I bought two tickets for the February 24th 6:10 p.m. showing, which was actually the first time in a long while, that I’d bought movie tickets. Most of the movies that Hollywood has been producing the past few years have been very disappointing. We rarely go to the movie theater anymore—perhaps another story for another day as well.

So I was very hopeful about going to this movie, but my hope subsided after actually seeing it. It was quite a bit different from what I was expecting. As I watched it and as soon as it was over several questions popped up in my mind:

1. I was a little surprised the movie didn’t clearly present the gospel. Did I miss it?

2. The words spoken at Greg’s baptism were minimal. It was like he wasn’t quite sure what he was doing there or that he just happened to be there and was caught up in the moment with the crowd. Why so vague?

3. The underwater portion of the baptism scene seemed overly dramatic: Baptism is a first step in obedience; an outward sign of an inward change in a believer’s life. Why such an exaggerated emphasis on the water?

4. I also don’t recall hearing anything about repentance in the movie. Did I miss that too?

Now, I know Greg Laurie’s ministry. Although I no longer actively follow his ministry, I’ve heard him present the gospel many times in the past. His gospel presentation is biblical. I even checked his current statement of faith on his church website and other than the fact that he is now associated with the Southern Baptist Convention, his statement of faith is still biblical. On a side note, while I agree in principle with the Baptist Faith and Message, I do take issue with the Southern Baptist Convention in practice due to the liberal left-leaning drift in both their leadership and in their majority since 2019. Nonetheless, I decided to look a little more into the making of the movie.

After just a little research, I learned that while the story is based on Greg’s autobiography, the co-directors and screenwriter, together with the producer, production company, etc., had artistic license to present the movie as written by the screenwriter. The artistic license allows deviations from the original story as written in the autobiography. Although I haven’t read the book, I understand that theĀ Jesus RevolutionĀ movie is not the same as the book. But of course, this wouldn’t be the first time we find a movie differs from the book.

Actually, seeing this movie raised more than a couple of other concerns with me.

To begin with, there are potential problems whenever the gospel is combined with entertainment. Movies, no matter the genre or the intent, are still a form of entertainment. So, the conveyance of the gospel in a movie is quite a delicate task, if not outright difficult, especially when artistic license is added to the mix. Basically they combined that which is holy, the gospel, with that which is not, the movie industry.

Regardless, and thankfully…

The gospel stands alone. God’s purposes and plan of salvation were achieved perfectly in the finished work of Jesus Christ on the cross. No movie, or anything else for that matter, will ever negate the gospel of Christ. If God allows this movie to help point people to repentance and faith in Him, so be it.

Secondly, Lonnie Frisbee, I take issue with both the actor who played his part in the movie and with Lonnie Frisbee himself.

I believe the casting director, or whoever was in charge of hiring Jonathan Roumie to play the part of Lonnie Frisbee, made a poor choice. Jonathan Roumie’s theology is a train wreck to put it nicely. He was reportedly involved in a practice called ā€œgrave soakingā€ or ā€œgrave sucking,ā€ in preparation for this movie. He’s on record as stating that on more than one occasion he visited Lonnie Frisbee’s gravesite and laid down next to his grave in an effort to ā€œconnect in some way with Lonnieā€ and ā€œto pray with him.ā€ That is in no way biblical. In fact, it’s way creepy and is actually akin to demonic or occult practices. The Bible strictly forbids and warns us against the practice of communicating with the dead, also known as necromancy:

ā€œA man or a woman who is a medium or a necromancer shall surely be put to death. They shall be stoned with stones; their blood shall be upon them.ā€ Leviticus 20:27

So while Greg Laurie went on to have a successful Christian ministry, Lonnie Frisbee, I’m sorry to say, did not. I found several disparaging articles, comments, and videos on the internet about Lonnie Frisbee. Toward the end of his approximately one-and-a-half years’ involvement with the Jesus Movement at Calvary Chapel, Lonnie grew increasingly erratic, self-centered, and overly focused on faith healing. After he left Calvary Chapel, Lonnie got involved with several questionable ministries, including the Vineyard Church, which focused on ā€œsigns and wondersā€ and ā€œfaith healings.ā€ Lonnie, who referred to himself as a ā€œseeing prophet,ā€ struggled with drugs and homosexuality for many years and died at age 43. The movie did touch on some of his erratic behavior but that was about the extent of it.

Greg Laurie, in a February 2023 interview, briefly explained that although he was not in contact with Lonnie Frisbee after Lonnie left Calvary Chapel, he did visit him shortly before his death in 1993. Greg stated that Lonnie was, in fact, repentant of his sins. Greg then eloquently reminded us that we are all flawed in one way or another, and that God often uses flawed people to accomplish His purposes.

To be clear, salvation grants us forgiveness of our sins and gives us not only a renewed life in Christ, but also eternal life in Him. As Christians, we all struggle against the flesh and the negative influence of our former sin nature, but ideally, we sin less and less as we grow in Christ. This is called the process of sanctification. However, there should be a noticeable difference in a believer’s life before salvation and after salvation.

I’ll leave it at that.

Now, I wonder if Greg Laurie had also been the screenwriter, perhaps this movie wouldn’t have raised so many questions and concerns. Maybe, or maybe not. I really don’t know.

Despite all my questions and concerns, I still give the movie a thumbs up; it has some flaws, but the message is still inspirational. In retrospect, I think the overall theme of this movie is that Jesus still seeks and saves the lost, and still sets the captives free. In addition, both Greg Laurie and the Jesus Revolution movie remind us that God can, and does, use flawed people to accomplish His purposes.

Mardi Gras

Mardi Gras

For several years while Harold and I were in the RV business, we kept very busy traveling. Typically we would buy one-way flights once or twice a month to go buy motorhomes at various locations, then drive them back home to Texas to sell. We traveled all over the United States, but the road between Texas and Florida was our most traveled route. We’d often stop for the night in Mississippi or Louisiana on our way home to Texas, as either state was a good halfway stopping point.

Anytime we traveled in the first quarter of the year, no matter where we stopped in the Mississippi or Louisiana area, we’d find ourselves engulfed in a sea of purple, green, and gold Mardi Gras dĆ©cor. The colors were vivid, and eye-catching, but what I found strange was that they also decorated Christmas trees. The same trees that held Christmas ornaments in December were decorated with Mardi Gras ornaments, signs, and ribbons in January, February, and sometimes March.

In February of 2023, after once again seeing the Mardi Gras decorated trees, I decided to look a little more into the history of Mardi Gras.

So one day I decided to look into this and did an internet search. I learned that the Mardi Gras tradition dates back well over 2,000 years to the pagan celebrations of spring and fertility, which included raucous Roman festivals. When Christianity arrived in Rome, the religious leaders (Catholicism) decided to incorporate these popular local pagan traditions into their religion, which apparently was an easier task than abolishing them altogether. As a result, the excess and debauchery of the Mardi Gras season became a prelude to Lent, the 40 days of fasting and penance between Ash Wednesday and Easter Sunday. Initially, I found the merger somewhat interesting, but the more I read, the more disturbing I found it.

Growing up attending a Methodist church, I was somewhat familiar with Ash Wednesday and Lent. However, years later, after I actually came into a saving relationship with Jesus Christ, I noticed the Baptist church I attended didn’t speak about Ash Wednesday or Lent. It was then I learned that the practices of Ash Wednesday and Lent were actually man-made traditions primarily found in the Catholic Church, and a few Protestant denominations such as the Methodist Church. A few years later I learned that penance is a Catholic sacrament and even though it may sound similar to repentance it’s not the same thing.

Repentance is a change of mind: turning away from sin and turning to God. Repentance (of sin) and faith (in Christ) are commonly referred to as two sides of the same coin. Repentance not only precedes salvation but is an ongoing daily practice for believers in Christ.

ā€œThe time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand; repent and believe in the gospel.ā€ Mark 1:15

ā€œRepent therefore, and turn back, that your sins may be blotted out, that times of refreshing may come from the presence of the Lord.ā€ Acts 3:19

ā€œIf we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.ā€ 1 John 1:9

Penance is a Catholic sacrament in which an external action or form of discipline is performed to show sorrow for sin. Generally, penance takes the form of praying certain prayers a specified number of times, fasting, or spending time in front of an altar. This is unbiblical. Nowhere does Scripture teach that performing works or the act of punishing oneself can make restitution for sin.

ā€œSee to it that no one takes you captive by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits of the world, and not according to Christ.ā€ Colossians 2:8

Now I realize that Mardi Gras has long been considered a colorful cultural tradition for many of those raised in the South. The colors, the cakes, the parades, and social gatherings have become an enduring Southern tradition that many people have enjoyed since childhood. And while it’s not my intent to offend anyone, I do want to try to convey a biblical perspective here. So I have to say that I find the excess, debauchery, drunkenness, and such as what goes on in New Orleans and elsewhere in the name of Mardi Gras, including Fat Tuesday, sickening. People overindulging, sinning egregiously, and doing so publicly; supposedly getting the sin out of their system before they start trying to be ā€œgoodā€ again. The Bible specifically reminds us, ā€œNo one is good, no, not one.ā€ (Romans 3:10), and one doesn’t become ā€œgoodā€ by performing any kind of man-made tradition. Sin is a serious matter that is offensive to God and should never be celebrated in parades.

ā€œDo not offer any part of yourself to sin as an instrument of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God as those who have been brought from death to life; and offer every part of yourself to him as an instrument of righteousness.ā€ Romans 6:13

The truth is we’re all sinners who fall short of the glory of God. It’s only when we repent of our sins and place our faith and trust in Jesus Christ and the finished work He did on the cross that He covers us with His righteousness.

ā€œFor our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.ā€ 2 Corinthians 5:21

The idea that Mardi Gras evolved from the mixing of raucous pagan festivals, the Catholic Church, and man-made traditions with the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ doesn’t sit well with me. Let alone the fact that these increasingly lewd and indignant Mardi Gras celebrations have been going on for so many years, and as a form of entertainment no less. And while I suspect many non-believers participate in Mardi Gras festivities and are just there for the party, what about those who participate in Mardi Gras festivities who claim to be Christian? Do you not realize you are mocking Christ and His finished work on the cross? Christ did not die for your sins so that you could celebrate them in Mardi Gras parades and parties. Nor did Christ die on the cross for your sins so that you could sin all you want and assume all is good as long as you can go do some penance.

Repent and trust in Christ alone.

ā€œThus says the Lord, ā€˜Behold, I set before you the way of life and the way of death.ā€™ā€Jeremiah 21:8

Query Family Christmases

Query Family Christmases

My childhood Christmas memories were some of my fondest childhood memories. We were not well off financially but we always had a wonderful Christmastime. Our Christmas celebration was fairly traditional all except for one thing: we had it in the middle of the night! It was not until several years later that I realized that most people don’t have Christmas at 3:00 a.m.!

Christmas 1956
Christmas 1956
Our family Christmas card Circa 1961 or 1962. I’m sitting on my dad’s lap, Dennis standing next to me, and Doug on my mom’s lap. Standing in the back is Eldon, Joyce, and Ronnie.

Actually, my dad worked a second job as a musician. He played guitar šŸŽø and got home around 2:00 or 3:00 a.m. So instead of him going straight to bed and having to wake up in a couple of hours, we’d all get up when he got home. By the time we were done opening presents, my mom would fix us a big breakfast and then she’d lay back down for a morning nap while we played with our new toys. Then it was off to my grandma’s for a visit and dinner. She would give each of her grandchildren a small gift or maybe just a dollar bill for Christmas, but the size of the gift didn’t matter to me. I loved my grandma and grandpa so much! After a day of food and fun playing with my cousins and siblings, we’d pile back into the car and fall asleep on the ride back home.

On my grandma’s stairway with my cousin Connie, and my brothers Dennis, Ronnie, and Doug, Circa late 1950’s or early 1960’s.

When I was old enough to shop for presents on my own, I remember going to K-Mart or Ayr-Way (later bought by Target) and getting all my Christmas shopping done in one day. I loved being able to do this, and really enjoyed buying my family handpicked gifts. It didn’t matter that they were from a discount store. I thought they were perfect gifts and I felt joy in giving gifts that I had bought on my own. In retrospect I believe this is when I first experienced the blessing of giving gifts.

It is more blessed to give than to receive. Acts 20:35

Now many years later, with grown children and ever growing grandchildren, I still enjoy giving gifts at Christmastime, but it’s more about being together as a family and making memories that I cherish the most. Our Christmas gatherings have taken on a deeper meaning to this aging wife, mom, and grandmother. Lord willing, I’ll have many more Christmases and many more years here on earth but I know my days are numbered.

Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes. James 4:14

As for man, his days are like grass: he flourishes like a flower of the field; for the wind passes over it, and it is gone … But the steadfast love of the Lord is from everlasting to everlasting on those who fear him. Psalm 103:15-17

One day God will take me home and in turn, I’ll be but a memory to my loved ones, and awaiting to see them again in heaven. In the meantime it’s my hope and prayer that each one of my loved ones will have personally received the most perfect gift ever:

The LORD Jesus Christ.

Thanks be to God for his indescribable gift! 2 Corinthians 9:15

Knowin’ Where I’m Goin’

Knowin’ Where I’m Goin’

Travel has long been one of my favorite things to do. I enjoy everything about it, even the planning. I also enjoy the challenge of traveling as inexpensively as possible.

Thanks to my airline employee and retiree benefits, I’ve been able to travel inexpensively for many years. I also get discounts on hotels, car rentals, and cruises too. All of which I’m very thankful for.

So in October of 2022 I traveled to/from Indianapolis for my 50th high school reunion. I flew on a confirmed ticket there because I wanted to make sure I’d get there on the day I planned, and decided to use my airline travel benefits to standby for my return flight. I wasn’t sure if I’d be going back to Dallas or to Tampa, plus getting back on a certain day wasn’t as important as getting there, so standby travel was a good option for my return. I also booked my hotel using reward points and reserved a rental car with a discount rate. Everything was set. At least I thought it was.

I made a little mistake on my hotel. 😬

Well actually, kind of a big mistake.

I had booked the hotel several months out using my husband’s Wyndham Rewards points. I put IND in the hotel search bar as I generally prefer staying near the airport whenever I need a hotel. The search showed availability south of IND airport so I booked it. So far so good.

So I thought.

As I got closer to my travel date, I even pulled up the address of my old high school on my iPhone and noticed that the hotel was actually in Southport. I thought, ā€œOh, that’s close to my high school. That’ll work.ā€

Same hotel name. Wrong hotel.

Wrong.

So on Thursday morning I flew nonstop from DAL Dallas Love Field to IND on WN Southwest Airlines. I got my rental car. I drove to Frankfort to have lunch with my cousin, Jeri. We had a nice visit and then I drove by my grandparents old house and also by the graveyard.

Then I drove over to Lebanon where I met my 2nd cousin, Chrissy, for dinner. After a nice visit I put in the address for my hotel on my iPhone map and headed back toward Indianapolis around 10 p.m. It was dark when I exited I-465 on to US 31 South and I was shocked when the map told me to take an immediate right. I thought, Oh no! Not THAT hotel! I remembered THAT hotel from over 50 years ago.

Mercy.

It was late and I was tired. I thought, well maybe, just maybe, they’ve updated it and that everything would be ok.

Wrong again.

As I walked inside the lobby I saw a few attempts had been made to try to update the hotel, but as I opened the door to my room my heart sank. The carpet was torn, the door lock latch was bent and therefore did not work, the toilet paper holder was rusted, and the under sink area had exposed pipes that were rusty and dirty looking.

So I sat down exhausted and upset with myself. I’d been up since 3:30 a.m Dallas time. Why wasn’t I more careful about which hotel I booked? Why didn’t I take time to reconfirm my reservation and verify the location?! I closed my eyes and prayed, ā€œLord, what should I do? šŸ™šŸ»

I called my husband and told him I made a BIG mistake. While on the phone I heard people out in the hallway which made me feel uncomfortable; unsafe actually. I decided right then that I needed to find another hotel. Then, while still on the phone with my husband I got a text from my cousin Connie, who I was planning visiting the next day. She asked me if I was at my hotel and if everything was ok.

Insert perfect timing and an answer to prayer here! šŸ™šŸ»ā¤ļø

I was embarrassed to tell her that I’d made a mistake on my hotel reservation, plus it was so late, nearly 11:00 p.m. but she insisted I come on over to her house to stay instead of getting another hotel. I was so thankful šŸ™ŒšŸ» and it was so nice to stay with her for three nights.

While in Indianapolis I visited my brother Ron, the graveyard where my parents and brother Eldon’s gravesites are, went to three different reunion events, and had a Sunday visit with my brother and sister-in-law, Dennis and Pam, at their new house in Westfield. We went to church, had brunch, a nice 3 mile walk on the Monon Trail, and a yummy dinner at home. The next morning I returned my rental car and flew standby on Delta IND x/ATL TPA.

It was a wonderful trip; all except my hotel mess-up. I realized:

• It was my own fault.

• I booked the wrong hotel.

• I assumed everything was ok, and

• I should have reconfirmed my hotel reservations and verified the location. As a seasoned traveler I should have known better.

Which made me think,

How much more we all need to make sure where our eternal destination is.

Years ago I used to listen to a Christian radio program hosted by Larry Burkett. He taught Christian principles concerning finances. He used to say, ā€œDo your givin’ while your livin’, then you’re knowin’ where it’s goin’.ā€ Good advice with a catchy country twang.

Thus the title, ā€œKnowin’ Where I’m Goinā€™ā€

While ā€œknowin’ where I’m goinā€™ā€ is good advice concerning hotel reservations, it’s of eternal importance concerning where we’re going after we pass away.

It’s OK to make a mistake with a hotel reservation.

It’s not OK to make a mistake with our eternal destination.

• Have you admitted you’re a sinner in need of a Savior?

• Have you repented of your sin and placed your faith and trust in Jesus Christ alone? Was there a change in your heart and in your life?

• Never ā€œassumeā€ you ’re going to heaven because you’re a ā€œgood personā€ or because you were baptized or because you go to church, or because of any ā€œgood works.ā€

• ā€œReconfirm your reservationā€ to heaven in ā€œfear and trembling:

Work out your own salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure. Philippians 2:13)

And,

Examine yourselves, to see whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves. 2 Corinthians 13:5

Make sure Jesus is your Savior and Lord.

You must be born again. John 3:7

Then, rest in knowing that the Bible is clear that salvation is by grace alone, through faith alone, in Christ alone.

ā€œBy grace are you saved, through faith, and that not of yourselves. It is the gift of God.ā€ Ephesians 2:8

As the hymn writer, C.L. Bancroft (1863) reminds us, we’re not saved by anything we’ve done, we’re saved by a work done for us:

Because the sinless Savior died,

My sinful soul is counted free,

For God the just is satisfied,

To look on Him and pardon me.

Lost and Found

Lost and Found

My first car was an old clunker. It was a light blue Chrysler and I’m not sure of the year (late 1950’s or early 1960’s) but it was definitely old. It had what I would describe as ā€œwingsā€ on each side at the rear of the car, and a convenient hole in the driver’s side floorboard where I could empty my soft drinks and coffee. Ha!

Strangely, it had an automatic transmission but no ā€œPā€ for park; I had to put it in ā€œNā€ for neutral and pull the parking brake. This would have been fine, except for the fact that the parking brake was broke. So, I had to open my door and throw a wood block under the front tire to chalk it in place. The real problem came when I’d miss the tire and have to hurry out of the car, get the block from wherever it landed, and wedge it under the tire before the car rolled too far. Good times! Ha!

Hey, I was 16 years old, it was 1970, and I was happy just to have my own car, even though it was a clunker.

It basically got me from point A to point B, and it had an AM radio, which was always tuned-in to either pop or rock music. šŸŽ¶

June 1971, in my light blue Chrysler.

The problem was my sense of direction; it wasn’t very good. I was always getting lost. I remember crying on more than one occasion because I was lost. This was the point when I first began thinking how cool it would be if my radio could please just tell me where I was, and how to get to where I was going. I was on the edge of brilliance (šŸ˜‚) but somehow fell short of inventing GPS navigation.

Then,

In 1972, I got a major upgrade; a brand new 1972 Camaro Rally Sport in Mojave Gold, complete with rear spoiler, an AM/FM stereo radio šŸŽ¶ (woo-hoo!), an 8-Track Tape player, lots of pop and rock 8-Track Tapes.

Me and my Camaro, May 1972. (My dad gave me $1000 for the down payment, and I worked full-time my senior year of high school, paid my monthly payments weekly and got it paid it off within a year.)

Fast forward to today, I drive a 2019 Jeep Grande Cherokee. It has a beautiful Pearl Red exterior color, and my favorite interior feature: Car Play with access to my iPhone apps, media, contacts, maps, and more.

October 2017, at the Texas State Fair in the Car Pavilion. I told Harold I loved the color of this 2018 Jeep. He surprised me a little over a year later in December 2018 with a brand new Pearl Red 2019 Jeep Grande Cherokee!

Lots of changes.

Much for the good.

But,

Of all of these changes over the past 50 years I’d have to say that the greatest change has not been in my cars,

but in my heart,

and in that which I choose to feed it.

The change in my heart occurred in my mid twenties when I turned to Christ in repentance and faith. I became born again, but God still had a lot of work to do in me, and still does. What I choose to feed my heart has a lot to with the process of sanctification and in the recognition of God’s grace in my life. It has been in my Bible studies that I recognized within myself, similar weaknesses and defeats experienced by many of the hero’s of faith in the Bible. I realize that any good I have done for Christ is not the result of my strength or intellect or character, but because of God’s grace. His grace is amazing and it is by His grace that He is still doing a work in my life. I know it is the Lord who is keeping me standing day by day, and moment by moment.

A.W. Pink reminds us that ā€œGod suffers it to appear that the best of men are but men at the best. No matter how richly gifted they may be, how eminent in God’s service, how greatly honoured and used of Him, let His sustaining power be withdrawn from them for a moment and it will quickly be seen that they are ā€˜earthen vessels.’ No man stands any longer than he is supported by Divine grace. The most experienced saint, if left to himself, is immediately seen to be as weak as water and as timid as a mouse.ā€

ā€œMake me to know your ways, O LORD; teach me your paths.ā€ Psalm 25:4

So these days,

My favorite thing to do while driving is listen to Christian talk radio. My favorite station is AFR, a Christian Talk Radio Station out of Tupelo, Mississippi. That station, combined with my favorite pastors, Christian teachers, and podcasters on iPhone apps are such a blessing. Suffice it to say that I’m thankful for each one of them. They, along with Bible study and prayer, help me keep more ā€œin tuneā€ with God and less ā€œin tuneā€ with the world.

ā€œI will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you.ā€ Psalm 32:8

So, how cool is it, that my getting lost when I first started driving, and my desperate hope that the radio would tell me where I was and how to get to where I needed to go, has actually come true in my life,

And,

in more ways than one:

Thanks to my Car Play maps and navigation system, I no longer get lost.

Thanks to Christian Talk Radio and my favorite iPhone apps that help guide me in my walk with the Lord.

Cooler still,

Thanks to the Lord,

ā€œI once was lost, but now am found;
Was blind, but now I see.ā€ #JohnNewton

By the grace of God,

I know who I am, (a sinner saved by grace).

I know where I am, (in Christ Jesus)

and,

I know where I’m going, (In the world but not of the world; on my way to heaven one day in God’s perfect timing.)

So,

ā€œPray that the LORD your God will tell us where we should go and what we should do.ā€ Jeremiah 42:3

And enjoy the ride along the way.

Impressed

Impressed

Back in the late 1960’s and early 1970’s my sister Joyce and I used to go out to the airport to watch the airplanes take off and land. We also went inside the terminal just to walk around sometimes. I was in my early teens and this was before the days of increased airport security, back when we day-dreamed of flying somewhere, back when life was simpler, and back when the main airport in Indianapolis was simply known as Weir Cook.

So, one day while we were walking around Weir Cook, my sister recognized Bobby Gentry of ā€œOde to Billie Joeā€ šŸŽ¶ fame. She was standing near one of the counters and was obviously upset. The airline had lost her guitar and my sister talked with her for a few minutes about it. I didn’t recognized her at first, even with her signature poofy hair-do, but I could tell she was somebody famous by the way she looked. I just didn’t know who she was initially.

So as we walked away, Joyce explained to me who she was and I was both shocked and impressed! I remember thinking how cool it was to see someone famous. It was 1967 or 1968 and I was a young teenager, around 13 or 14 years old. Her song, ā€œOde to Billie Joe,ā€ was a very popular song on the radio at this time. The song was basically a story put to music, about a boy who died jumping off a Mississippi bridge. The story included a girl who secretly loved him, some mysterious circumstances, and her family who spoke of his death with casual indifference while eating dinner.

So Bobby Gentry was my first encounter with someone famous. I have to admit I thought it was pretty exciting, but I was pretty young then too. I was easily impressed.

Over the years I’ve had the pleasure of meeting or talking with a variety of famous people. I think most everyone has as well.

Here’s some of mine:

• Actors Jerry Mathers and Tony Dowell of Leave it to Beaver fame at a dinner theater (Beef and Boards) meet-and-greet and photo op in Indianapolis.

• Singer Mel Torme (“Chestnuts Roasting on an Open Fire”šŸŽ¶) when he stood behind me at the America The Beautiful Circle-Vision 360° Movie at Walt Disney World in Florida.

• Actor Robert Ulrich (Dan Tanna in the crime drama series Vega$, and Spenser in Spenser for Hire) on a telephone call one day when I booked several flights for him and his family to/from Florida, while working for Delta Air Lines in Tampa.

• TV Show Host Gary Collins on a telephone call discussing his wife’s (Mary Ann Mobley) reservation, while I worked at Delta Air Lines in Los Angeles.

• Actor Ed Begley Jr. (Ghostbuster’s, St. Elsewhere) in a little store onboard a tour of The RMS Queen Mary in Long Beach, California.

• Actor Henry Winkler (The Fonz) photo op with my daughter Megan at a Dallas children’s hospital.

• Comedian Yakov Smirnoff (Soviet-Born comedian famous for the phrase ā€œAmerica: What a country!ā€) photo op with my daughter Mackenzie and me in Branson, Missouri.

• Artist Thomas Kincaid, ā€œPainter of Lightā€ photo op with Harold and me after we purchased a Hometown Morning Limited Edition Canvas in Longview, Texas at a Thomas Kincaid Gallery Event.

• TV Game Show Host Bob Barker when I was a contestant on The Price is Right TV show in Los Angeles in 2005.

• Comedian Jay Leno photo op at a Tonight Show taping in Burbank where my daughter Megan and I talked with him before the taping. He called us ā€œThe Dove girls.ā€ šŸ•Š

• Actor Ben Affleck at a Tonight Show taping with my daughters Michelle and Megan, where he came over to say, ā€œHello,ā€ and to shake our hands.

• Singer Robin Thicke photo op at El Capitan Theatre in Hollywood, when he came over to speak with me and my daughter Megan after a show taping.

• Morning TV Show Host Robin Roberts photo op at NYC Times Square at a Good Morning America TV show taping.

• Singer Jason Mraz photo op in Los Angeles at an American Idol Finale with my daughter, Mackenzie.

• NASCAR drivers, Rusty Wallace, Dale Earnhardt Jr (with my grandson Landon), Danica Patrick, etc. photo ops at TMS (Texas Motor Speedway)

• Reality TV Personality Willie Robertson (Duck Dynasty) photo op at TMS.

• TV Spokesperson Marie Osmond when she and I spoke on the telephone on two scheduled QVC/Nutrisystem TV show call-in’s. She called me ā€œgirlfriendā€ and a ā€œsilver fox.ā€ šŸ˜‚

• Singer Meghan Linsey (from The Voice) at a Nutrisystem photo shoot at a Tampa advertising studio.

• And honorable mention to Elton John and Bernie Taupin’s travel agent. Ha! I talked with her one day back in 1990 about some problem’s with their booking while working in the Los Angeles Customer Service Department for Delta Air Lines.

So, out of the list above, how many of these people have you heard of or remember?!

If you’re around my age, maybe most of them, but if you’re young, there’s a good chance you haven’t heard of any of them.

Actually, I think it’s fairly likely that after a generation or two, most so called ā€œfamousā€ people eventually sink into obscurity along with everyone else.

In reality, we are all just people.

While being famous might make a person more recognizable than others, it doesn’t make a person any more special than anyone else.

While a famous person may be a great actor, artist, musician, or athlete, etc., in the eyes of God they are equal to people who cannot act, paint, sing, play an instrument, or play sports, etc.

Eventually no matter how famous a person may be during their lifetime, ā€œthis too will pass.ā€

And, the best of people are just people at best.

The Bible tells us that,

ā€œGod created man in his own image,ā€(Genesis 1:27) and ā€œthere is no partiality with God.ā€ (Romans 2:11)

And,

Yet He is not partial to princes, Nor does He regard the rich more than the poor; For they are all the work of His hands. Job 34:19

Most importantly, the Bible warns us about holding idols (people, places, or things) in higher esteem than God. God is to be honored above all things and to be worshiped in ā€œspirit and truth.ā€ (John 4.23)

Those who regard worthless idols
Forsake their own mercy. Jonah 2:8

Specifically,

ā€œYou shall have no other gods before me.” Exodus 20:3

So while it may be a pleasure to meet interesting and famous people along life’s highway, the Bible reminds us that we’re to keep it all in proper perspective.

We should look at everyone equally as individuals created in the image of God.

And we shouldn’t be overly impressed with anyone.

Except,

God.

Not to us, O Lord, not to us, but to your name give glory, for the sake of your steadfast love and your faithfulness! Psalm 115:1

Worthy are you, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honor and power, for you created all things, and by your will they existed and were created. Revelation 4:11

Sing to the Lord, all the earth! Tell of his salvation from day to day. Declare his glory among the nations, his marvelous works among all the peoples! For great is the Lord, and greatly to be praised,and he is to be feared above all gods. 1 Chronicles 16:23-25

The Sun ā˜€ļø

The Sun ā˜€ļø

The sun is amazing. It provides light, warmth, energy, and natural vitamin D to support our immune system. These are all provisions that God has graciously made to benefit and sustain us. Without the sun, life as we know it would cease to exist.

I remember when I was in my early teens back in Indiana my friend, Penny, had the prettiest golden tan. Even though I was fair-complected, I figured that surely I could have a tan just like her if I would just lay out in the sun like she did. So, one day after we had spent the afternoon in my backyard sunbathing, and just as I was beginning to think I was getting some color, Penny’s mom came to pick her up and said to me, ā€œElaine, you need to get out in the sun more.ā€

Later that summer, I stayed out on the beach all day the first day of our family vacation. I walked up and down the Daytona Beach coastline thinking I was going to get such a good tan. Wrong. I was practically burned to a crisp, from head to toe. I spent the entire rest of our vacation sick in bed with sun poisoning. It was the absolute worst sunburn of my entire life. I remember I was sick to my stomach, dizzy for days, and would faint whenever I tried to stand up. It was awful. To make matters worse, after my skin was done peeling, my shoulders, arms, back, and chest were covered in freckles.

I did learn a lesson though: Too much of a good thing isn’t always good. So, ever since then, I’ve tried to avoid overexposure to the sun. I made a conscious choice to stop laying out in the sun and to seek shade if I was going to be outside in direct sun for very long.

I was in my 30s when I experienced my first basal cell skin cancer. I started thinking about the sun damage I got in my youth and started wearing sunscreen everyday.

In my 40s and 50s I experienced a couple more basal cell cancers. I found some skin care products that lightened some of the brown spots on my face, and I also increased my sunscreen SPF to 50.

In my 60s, I experienced a couple more basal cell cancers and a couple of squamous cell cancers as well. At the suggestion of my dermatologist, I started wearing sun bonnets as much as possible, as we lived and worked in both Texas and Florida.

May 2022

However, the long-term effects of sun exposure, especially the severe sunburn at age 13, and all the years I did not wear sunscreen or a hat, took a toll on my skin.

While most of my skin cancers were removed with a snip and a stitch or two, I had one surgery that took a big chunk of skin from my left temple which required a few more stitches. However, it was my 2024 basal cell cancer, at age 69, and the subsequent Mohs surgery that took me by surprise. It required a bilobe flap reconstructive surgery by a plastic surgeon, and took several weeks to heal.

July and August 2024, Post Op Bi-Lobe Flap surgery.

The scars are permanent but faded fairly well within about a year and really, I try not to let it bother me. I’m really just thankful that it wasn’t any worse than it was.

In my early 70s, I’m currently dealing with routine follow-ups on a superficial skin cancer on my leg that was originally treated with a topical chemotherapy cream. I also pay frequent visits to my dermatologist to zap any questionable pre-cancers with a liquid nitrogen procedure called cryosurgery.

I’ve also cut seed oils out of my diet as much as possible because vegetable oils extracted from the seeds of plants, like canola, soybean and safflower, are now known to not only be unhealthy to consume, but they also increase the likelihood of getting sunburned. Some studies attribute inflammation, UV-induced oxidative skin damage, and a weakened skin barrier to the combination of consuming seed oils and being exposed to the sun. I wish I had known about seed oils earlier; however, at my current age of 71, I’m thankful for the overall good health that God has blessed me with so far, and hope to stay healthy as long as the good Lord sees fit.

ā€œBless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits, who forgives all your iniquity, who heals all your diseases.ā€ Psalms 103:2-3